GRACEFUL Girlfriend(s)

It is time for another 5 Minute Friday. Earlier this week, I decided to choose my own topics for blogging and not get “caught” completing an “assignment.” But then I saw the word for this week—“graceful.” I had already decided to write about some of my friends and include scans of scrapbook pages I recently completed about my girlfriends. And, voila!, the two topics mesh so well that I am once again going to participate in 5 Minute Friday.

Just in case you have missed earlier posts about it, on 5 Minute Friday blogger Lisa-Jo gives a word for everyone to reflect on. We each write for 5 minutes, with no editing, then post our links. It can be fascinating to see how many different interpretations there are of that week’s word! (If you like this week’s word, go check out posts by other bloggers HERE.)

So…here it goes…Ready…Set…Write!


I didn’t use to have girls as friends. During my teen years, most girls seemed to want to talk about clothes and make-up, talk about boys (rather than hanging out with them), or talk about ME (at least, that’s what it felt like). My heart was ripped over and over by barbed words from fellow females.

But then I grew up. I had kids. I stepped into leadership roles at church and in the homeschooling community. I found some women who were filled-with-grace. And these women became my good friends.

Let me tell you about one of my favorite grace-filled girlfriends. Sharon is day to my night; classy to my colorful; soft-spoken to my brashness; introvert to my extroversion. We may look like opposites…but our hearts have been knit together through tragedy and through triumph.

my GRACE-FULL friend

As we rub the rough edges off of each other, as we encourage each other, as we cheer each other on, one of the things I appreciate most about Sharon is her GRACE. She is a lovely lady, outside and in.

I’ve put scans on my ART BLOG of some of the scrapbook pages I made recently to celebrate my girlfriends. As I look through the pages, I realize that many of my friends (including those celebrated on these pages and others who have come and gone in different seasons of my life) are often GRACE-FULL. And perhaps that is why I am so drawn to them…


5 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. deepfragilegrace
    Sep 07, 2012 @ 22:07:25

    Yep, have felt the same way about girlfriends/girls who I was “friends” with growing up…why do we feel the need to shut out and compete with other girls so early in life I wonder? But the sweetness of friendships has come out of the bitterness and rough start with female friends, thankfully. And yes, that is something that is full of grace.

    Such a great post. And for the record, I love the colorful glasses!


    • jecolorfulheart
      Sep 08, 2012 @ 07:12:52

      awww…thanks! (and it’s really funny about the glasses…to me they are glaringly, wondrously bright and bold…yet hardly anyone has ever commented on them!…not quite sure what that means…)


  2. Sharon & Dave
    Sep 08, 2012 @ 07:20:24

    Dear One, I could add “candle on a candlestick” (in a house) vs. “city on a hill whose light cannot be hid”. Remember the picture I had of you being a “lighthouse that gives guidance and direction” – reaching many! Yep; that’s you.
    You have opened horizons for me. Bless you! Sharon


    • jecolorfulheart
      Sep 08, 2012 @ 08:35:17

      and that is what is so cool—we are so different yet we are heart-to-heart…and look how God uses BOTH of us 🙂


  3. Stacie
    Sep 08, 2012 @ 09:51:07

    Amen! Thank you God for good heart-friends. (and that mddle school ends).


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